Impermanence

 I've come to realize long ago that life's impermanence is an unavoidable truth. People change, and so do our circumstances. My father's experience taught me this harsh reality.

He had a close friend, Sunil Kaka - a vibrant soul with an infectious laugh, a heart full of gold, and a mind bursting with wit, humor, and knowledge. His effervescent personality could light up any room, making everyone feel welcome and valued. Selfless and generous, Sunil Kaka had a unique gift for connecting with people from all walks of life.

Tragedy struck unexpectedly. At 32, while working alongside my father at Bengal Paper Mills, a small infection developed in Sunil Kaka's leg. What seemed like a minor issue escalated rapidly, and despite medical efforts, the infection spread, forcing doctors to amputate his leg. The shock and trauma were overwhelming, and by 36, he was gone.

My father was devastated, taking years to recover from the loss. He became stoic, maintaining dignified friendships but guarding his heart.

He shared stories of Sunil Kaka with me, and I realized the profound impact of that loss on him. True friendships are rare, and life's unpredictability can shatter them. Yet, we must find resilience in the face of grief.

As I reflect on my father's experience, I understand how it shaped his approach to relationships. He taught me to cherish meaningful connections and cope with life's impermanence. I've learned to appreciate the value of true friendships and the importance of resilience in the face of adversity.